In the fall of 2014, a blogging friend and I exchanged seeds through the mail. She sent me hollyhock seeds and I sent her poppy seeds. We looked forward to the spring when we would plant each other’s flowers.
I was sorry to hear that the poppy seeds didn’t sprout for her that next year, but her hollyhocks grew for me.
In November of 2015, she died of cancer. I was shocked because she had been such a positive person. I never would have guessed that she would lose that battle.
I planted the hollyhocks in my vegetable garden because I go there every day, rather than in a flower bed I might rarely visit. Year after year, I think of my friend fondly, yet sadly, almost every day when I watch her hollyhocks grow, from the earliest leaves to the huge stalks loaded with flowers. It’s as if she’s saying hello whenever I go out to my garden.
If you would like to visit the blog of Barb Beacham, and browse back in time over some of her posts, here is the link: https://salmonfishingqueen.wordpress.com/
She was a wonderful person and I still miss her. I’m so glad I have her hollyhocks in my garden.
July 20, 2019 at 9:31 am
What a wonderful and very personal connection to her in your garden. My condolences – I checked out her blog and she seems a lovely person. ❤
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July 20, 2019 at 10:17 am
She was special. I edited a few chapters of the memoir she was writing and didn’t have time to finish. She was humble and had a great sense of humour.
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July 20, 2019 at 9:34 am
Such a lovely way to remember someone every year. Those hollyhocks are no doubt as beautiful as Barb was.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:17 am
It’s a nice way to remember her. Surprising how often I think of her. Nearly every day, really!
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July 20, 2019 at 9:48 am
What a lovely tribute to your friend, Anneli. The hollyhocks are gorgeous.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:18 am
There are some pink ones too, that she sent me but the burgundy ones are doing the best.
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July 20, 2019 at 9:54 am
I got some iris bulbs from a friend who died a year later (pancreatic cancer). Like you, seeing the flowers each year reminded me of her and was very comforting, because it was like she was still around.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:19 am
One of the things I love about plants and gardening is that so many plants have a story. Glad you understand.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:07 am
A lovely way to remember a good friend. The hollyhocks are as beautiful as your friend was.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:20 am
I try to take good care of them because I know she loved hollyhocks and these are from her own garden, so they’re special.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:14 am
Sad, but a wonderful remembrance of your friend.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:21 am
She was a lovely person.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:25 am
I checked out your friend’s blog…it’s as if she were still blogging…I admit I have a hard time wrapping my head around this new age we live in with blogs living beyond the beating heart that writes them. But I admire how her husband brought her blogging buddies into the fold of his grieving heart.
Those Hollyhocks are real gems, Anneli.
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July 20, 2019 at 11:28 am
That was beautifully said, Laura. Thank you.
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July 20, 2019 at 10:59 am
What a lovely way to remember your friend, Anneli. I’m so sorry for your loss.
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July 20, 2019 at 11:30 am
We exchanged a lot of letters besides the blog notes, and I got to know what a fine person she was. I’m so glad I have her flowers in my garden.
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July 20, 2019 at 1:22 pm
A lovely way to remember your friend, the flowers somewhat bittersweet though.
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July 20, 2019 at 2:07 pm
Yes, bittersweet, but she loved hollyhocks, so they are happy flowers.
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July 20, 2019 at 1:49 pm
How wonderful, Anneli. Those beautiful flowers will always bloom and bring you wonderful memories of your dear friend.
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July 20, 2019 at 2:08 pm
Yes, they will keep coming back year after year. Thanks, Jennie.
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July 20, 2019 at 2:20 pm
I’m so glad, Anneli! ❤️
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July 20, 2019 at 4:33 pm
Wonderful tribute Anneli
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July 20, 2019 at 6:04 pm
Thanks, DK. She was a treasure.
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July 20, 2019 at 5:32 pm
beautiful story.
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July 20, 2019 at 6:05 pm
Thanks, Jim. I only wish it had a happier ending.
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July 21, 2019 at 5:35 am
Great post 🙂
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July 21, 2019 at 9:54 am
Thank you.
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July 21, 2019 at 10:05 am
No problem 🙂 check out my blog when you get the chance 😄
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July 21, 2019 at 10:09 am
I did that. Love the idea of snorkeling in warm water (without sharks).
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July 21, 2019 at 9:34 am
What a lovely way to remember her. It is one of the strange things about life that gifts and gestures can outlive us. She is honoured by these beautiful flowers.
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July 21, 2019 at 9:57 am
I know she really liked her hollyhocks so if they can grow here and I think of her, that’s great. She deserves to be remembered. Thanks for your kind comment, Adele.
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July 21, 2019 at 6:35 pm
What a wonderful remembrance!
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July 22, 2019 at 6:43 am
I feel happy and sad at the same time when I see Barb’s hollyhocks, but I know if she could see them she’d be pleased.
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July 22, 2019 at 8:23 am
I’m sorry to hear about your friend. What a wonderful way to remember her!
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July 22, 2019 at 10:46 am
Thanks, Susie. Yes, it’s funny how it worked out that I have her flowers blooming here every year. Makes me happy to see them thrive.
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July 22, 2019 at 9:32 am
This is very heartwarming. ❤
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July 22, 2019 at 10:48 am
Tnx, Lori. Barb had me edit the first few chapters of her memoir and I feel bad that she couldn’t finish it. She had such a great sense of humour as she told of the funny things that happened to her as a child. I really enjoyed reading it and getting to know how feisty she was even as a child.
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July 22, 2019 at 10:55 am
Barb sounds like my kind of lady. It really is a shame that she wasn’t able to get that memoir published.
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July 27, 2019 at 12:45 pm
The hollyhocks’ blossom to remember your friend. Lovely sentiment, and keeping your friend in your memory.
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July 27, 2019 at 1:20 pm
They did really well this year.
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November 5, 2019 at 2:29 pm
What a lovely memorial to your friend.
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November 5, 2019 at 4:52 pm
Thank you. She was very special.
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