Cowboy was a cat, probably the most special cat I’ve ever had. He loved me and I loved him. When he and his brother were only a few inches long, the two of them lay in their owner’s hand. The owner of the kittens told me, if you don’t take them … and he made a motion as if he would close his hand and squish them. Of course he wouldn’t really do that, but the cats’ lives were at stake.
I took the two cats and named them after two boys that I had taught back in those long ago days. Their mother had called her children by the nicknames, Cowboy and Shorty. I liked the names, and thought it would be perfect for these cat brothers too.
We may meet Shorty in a later post when I get to the letter S.
Cowboy thought he owned me. As you can see, he has claimed my knee in this photo.
When I brushed my teeth in the bathroom of our very small starter home, Cowboy would jump up onto the toilet lid and from there up onto my back as I bent over the sink. He got comfortable on my shoulders and then stretched his head around the side of my face so he could lick the toothpaste off my cheek and chin.
I guess it had that same minty flavour of the catnip in our garden that sometimes had him doing backflips out there.
He didn’t like to be left behind if I went for a walk down the field below our house. He would follow behind, trying to catch up, hoping for permission to come along, by calling out, “AllOW! … AllOW! … AllOW! (He had a bit of Siamese in him and was able to make that sound of a baby crying.)
So of course I would allow him to come along.
He lived for 13 and a half years, and it was nowhere near long enough. I still miss him.

December 3, 2024 at 1:07 am
He looks like a real character, Anneli. I remember our past dogs and cats very well and miss them all but there are a couple that I still miss terribly.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:29 am
Oh, he was a character! He used to attack my arm in a play wrestling game, but he always stopped short of scratching me.
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December 3, 2024 at 2:03 am
Awwe. He is handsome. Cowboy certainly owned you. 😊
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December 3, 2024 at 8:27 am
He DID!
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December 3, 2024 at 2:18 am
He is beautiful.
Keep well
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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December 3, 2024 at 8:27 am
Thanks, KB. We loved him.
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December 3, 2024 at 4:47 am
The expressive eyes are wonderful — as is your description of his habits. We do miss them when they’re gone.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:27 am
Pets are lucky when they have a good home, but we are really the luckier ones to have had them with us.
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December 3, 2024 at 5:24 am
Cowboy and Shorty … what fine names. I can imagine how much he’s missed.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:26 am
I did call them to come to their names, but most of the time when I wanted them to come, I called them the way my mother called any cat she ever had, and that was “Tss, tss, tss, tss, tsssss.” They always came running to that sound.
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December 3, 2024 at 6:04 am
Dearly adored pets become such a part of our family. Sorry for your loss of Cowboy, Anneli. You gave him love and a good life while he was with you. That is the gift to both of you. Happy Tuesday. Allan
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December 3, 2024 at 8:24 am
It was a long time ago, but I still remember so many good times with that cat. Thanks, Allan.
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December 3, 2024 at 7:20 am
That is a cat to be missed. He knew you saved him.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:20 am
These two brothers were very young when I got them, and I think I became their “mother.”
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December 3, 2024 at 7:47 am
Despite the years, the dear pets linger in our minds. As you said, “…it was nowhere near long enough.”
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December 3, 2024 at 8:19 am
Exactly right, Grant. It was painful to lose him but I was so lucky to have him for as long as I did. As you said, they are hard to forget, and he was special.
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December 3, 2024 at 7:54 am
Cowboy was a beautiful cat! Such a sweet little face, I can see why you still miss him, Anneli. 😻❤️
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December 3, 2024 at 8:18 am
Yes, what a character he was too!
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December 3, 2024 at 8:53 am
😻❤️
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December 3, 2024 at 8:05 am
We got to know Cowboy and … when we where house sitting for you a long long time ago. He was such a sweet friend for you, but he reached a pretty high age. Very nice pictures!
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December 3, 2024 at 8:17 am
Thank you, Ursula. Yes, it was a long time ago. A long time for a cat to be remembered so well. I sure missed him when he was gone.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:09 am
Cowboy was such a handsome boy and had so much love he wanted to share. He reminds me of my cat, Beans. Other than being a tortoiseshell cat, she looks so much like him and sounds like him too.
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December 3, 2024 at 8:16 am
Thanks, Sonja. They add a lot of good to our lives, don’t they?
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December 3, 2024 at 1:05 pm
Aww, such a pretty cat. That was really heartfelt and made me miss Cowboy with you. I could tell you had a heart connection. I’ve had a few cats in my life and never connected with any of them. Your story is special.
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December 3, 2024 at 3:01 pm
Cowboy and his brother were part of the family. We both loved them a lot.
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December 3, 2024 at 1:51 pm
A sweet post, Anneli! I think our pets always hold a special place in our hearts.
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December 3, 2024 at 3:00 pm
They sure do!
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December 3, 2024 at 3:53 pm
Cute name, cute story, warm memories. ❤
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December 3, 2024 at 6:14 pm
Thanks, Carol. Have a nice evening.
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December 3, 2024 at 11:47 pm
Cowboy…nice name for a cat.🥰
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December 4, 2024 at 8:45 am
He suited his name.
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December 4, 2024 at 8:22 am
Our pets usually do own us, and he was very sweet, Anneli.
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December 4, 2024 at 8:56 am
Thanks, Lauren. They are part of the family.
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December 5, 2024 at 6:07 pm
Awww… that is such a sweet post, Anneli. No wonder Cowboy stole your heart. It must have been the toothpaste. 🙂
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December 6, 2024 at 6:42 am
There is something about mint. Cats (and dogs too) just love the flavour.
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December 6, 2024 at 5:35 pm
😍
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December 6, 2024 at 7:31 am
Er war so süß. 😍 Und einzigartig. ❤️
Ja, wir vermissen unsere Schätze, wenn sie uns verlassen.
Pepper ist jetzt seit 9 Jahren nicht mehr da, es vergeht kein Tag, an dem ich nicht an ihn denke.
Liebe Grüße ❤️
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December 6, 2024 at 11:00 am
Weren’t we lucky to have had such wonderful pets!?
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December 6, 2024 at 12:09 pm
Ja, liebe Anneli, wir haben großes Glück. 🥰
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December 18, 2024 at 6:24 pm
Pet felines offer reciprocally healthy relationships — many cat lovers describe them as somewhat symbiotic — particularly for those suffering physical and/or mental illness. It’s the pet’s many qualities, especially its non-humanly innocence, that makes losing it someday such a heartbreaking experience.
Along with human intelligence comes the proportionate reprehensible potential for evil behavior, i.e. malice for malice’s sake. While animals, including cats, can react violently, it is typically due to reactive distrust/dislike. But leave it to humans to commit a spiteful act, if only because we can. With our four-legged friends there definitely is a beautiful absence of that undesirable distinctly human trait.
Human apathy, the throwaway mentality/culture and even a bit of public hostility toward them typically result in population explosions thus their inevitable neglect and suffering, including severe illness and starvation. With the mindset of feline disposability, it might be: ‘Oh, there’s a lot more whence they came’.
It’s likely that only when their over-populations are greatly reduced in number through consistent publicly-funded spay/neuter programs, might these beautiful animals’ potentially soothing, even therapeutic, presence be truly appreciated rather than taken for granted or even resented. Until then, cats likely will remain beautiful yet often misunderstood, prejudged and unjustly despised animals.
Also, many people cannot relate to cat owners finding preciousness and other qualities in their beloved pets, including a non-humanly innocence, that make losing them someday such a horrible heartbreak. Even when the innocent animal has been made to greatly suffer needlessly, perhaps before finally being murdered, many people will instead think and maybe mutter, ‘It was just a cat’.
And many non-cat-fans don’t care for the innate resistance by cats to heeling at their masters’ command. And their reptile-like vertical-slit pupils and Hollywood-cliché fanged hiss when confronted, in a world mostly hostile toward snakes, cause cats to have a seemingly permanent PR problem, despite their Internet adorable-pet dominance.
There also is too much plain anti-cat complacency and contempt out there, even amongst news-media professionals. For example, I came across a newspaper editor’s column about courthouse protesters in Ontario, Canada, who were demanding justice for a cat that had been cruelly shot in the head 17 times with a pellet gun, destroying an eye. Within her piece, the editor rather recklessly declared: “Hey crazy people, it’s [just] a cat.” … The court judge might’ve also perceived it so, as the charges against the two adult-male perpetrators were dropped.
Then there was the otherwise progressive national commentator proclaiming in one of her then-syndicated columns that “I never liked cats”. In another piece, she wrote that Canadian politicians should replace their traditional unproductively rude heckling with caterwauling: “My vote is for meowing because I don’t like cats and I’d like to sabotage their brand as much as possible. So if our elected politicians are going to be disrespectful in our House of Commons, they might as well channel the animal that holds us all in contempt.”
… Cats, especially those additionally unfortunate enough to be born black, were demonized thus ordered to be slaughtered by the early Church — until, of course, humane citizens strongly protested that death warrant on innocent cats. Quite poetically, preying cats were/are known to keep plague-spreading rodent numbers significantly down. Today, black cats are 75 percent less likely than non-black cats to be adopted.
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