
I‘ve always liked this poem by William Butler Yeats, but until today, I knew very little about the author. Having now read a summary of his life, it changed the meaning of the poem for me (not my positive feelings about it), and I’ve decided not to offer my opinion here until I hear what you, my readers, think about this poem.
When You Are Old
by William Butler Yeats
When you are old and gray and full of sleep,
And nodding by the fire, take down this book,
And slowly read, and dream of the soft look
Your eyes had once, and of their shadows deep;
How many loved your moments of glad grace,
And loved your beauty with love false or true;
But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you,
And loved the sorrows of your changing face.
And bending down beside the glowing bars
Murmur, a little sadly, how love fled
And paced upon the mountains overhead
And hid his face amid a crowd of stars.
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October 26, 2025 at 1:09 pm
I’m terrible at analyzing poetry even though I was an English major in college, but I also like this poem and for me it differentiates true love from superficial love.
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October 26, 2025 at 2:52 pm
I’ve never liked having to analyze poetry. I would rather it speak plainly so I can understand it. Considering your comment, Barb, I thought that the poem could be about unrequited love. Maybe superficial on one person’s part and true on the other’s. Who knows?
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October 28, 2025 at 8:24 am
Could be!
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October 26, 2025 at 1:22 pm
Evocative but no clear message.
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October 26, 2025 at 2:54 pm
I used to think it meant that the person, whose love fled and ended up in the stars, maybe died and the widow left behind is missing him. But then again, it could mean something completely different.
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October 26, 2025 at 3:03 pm
I know about Yeats and in particular, about this poem, which refers to an unrequited love of his. He was obsessed with her – she drove a lot of his poetry – and he proposed numerous times. She turned him down because she felt they were unsuited, and given how inappropriately obsessed he was, I think she was right. In his later years he became unreasonably critical of her and even tried to marry her daughter who would have been about 25 years younger. The daughter also refused him. It seems that he tried to take revenge on his old idol.
In this poem, he’s arguing that she missed her one chance at true love by not marrying him, something that she would regret in old age.
I admire Yeats’s poetry but I have a lot of difficulty with his personal beliefs. For me, he raises the question of whether you can separate the beauty of the art from the unsavoury beliefs of its creator. For starters, he was a Nazi sympathiser and a friend of Mussolini. He didn’t believe in democracy and basically thought that “ordinary” people were too stupid to run a government. He felt that totalitarianism and authoritarianism were the only ways to govern.
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October 26, 2025 at 3:39 pm
That’s basically what I read about him too, but I had (all these years) imagined that he was talking about a woman who had lost her husband and that he was now up there in the stars somewhere. I think I might agree with him about that last part – what ordinary people couldn’t do. Not the last part though.
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October 27, 2025 at 12:34 am
I can´t analyze this great poem, my English is not good enough.
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October 27, 2025 at 6:58 am
Don’t worry about your English. I can always fix little mistakes if they bother you. For the poem, I just hoped that you might enjoy it. To me, it speaks beautifully of lost love.
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October 27, 2025 at 3:05 am
Lynette summed up nicely, Anneli. Thanks for highlighting how knowing the backstory reveals more and deepens the meaning.
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October 27, 2025 at 7:07 am
It does that, for sure, but all these decades I’ve thought of it as a true love lost. I want to stick with what it meant to me and not Yeats’ likely intended meaning. Now I’m wavering.
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October 27, 2025 at 5:29 am
I agree with Anneli about analysing poetry. I don’t see the point in writing something people can’t understand unless someone else explains it.
Mind you, someone once analysed one of my poems and found something in it even I didn’t know!
I liked the first two verses, but the last one lost me, even with Lynette’s interpretation. What are the bars he talks about?
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October 27, 2025 at 7:14 am
I assumed the bars were the grate in the fireplace, but who knows? We can’t ask Yeats. I’m happy to hear that, like me, you can’t see the point of writing something no one will understand. But maybe in this case, we can each take away what the poem means to us.
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October 27, 2025 at 11:47 am
Anneli, I loved reading the poem here and also reader comments! I am going to disagree about poetry analysis in one respect, but first let me say, analysis brought in too early (for kids) can lead to a hatred of poetry. I used to try to impress upon my education students that they should never ask kids to analyze poetry, but to talk about how it makes me feel. Then they can move into how does it make me feel that way. But as an adult, learning to explicate a poem in grad school opened up so much to me. There are so many layers of meaning to a poem that can only be unpacked when one readers it over and over again, understands the meanings of each word, how various poetry devices add to meaning, etc. However, do casual readers have time to do all that for each poem? hahaha, no
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October 27, 2025 at 11:52 am
You’ve said it all perfectly. I remember very clearly that I didn’t like certain poems that seemed to be a really mysterious potpourri of wordswordswordswords that meant nothing but misery for me at school. I learned to appreciate a few, then tolerate some more, and finally love a lot of them, but it was not because of analyzing them that I learned to love them.
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October 27, 2025 at 2:28 pm
Exactly. It’s that emotional resonance!
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October 27, 2025 at 3:02 pm
Yes, exactly! That’s what appeals to me more than all the other technical stuff.
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October 29, 2025 at 3:36 pm
Yuppers!
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October 27, 2025 at 5:35 pm
I’m not great at analyzing poetry either, Anneli, but I appreciate Lynette’s summary. I didn’t know much about Yeats but now I do. I also wondered about the glowing bars. I like poetry with substance but that can be understood. If I have to dissect and spend too much time in order to comprehend the poet’s message, I’m off to another poet. Thanks for sharing though. You made us put on our thinking caps. 🙂
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October 27, 2025 at 7:10 pm
Yes, I agree with everything you’ve said, Lauren.
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October 29, 2025 at 5:47 pm
I like the poem, and I like the mystique. I think that was purposeful, so readers could find what they wanted, what they needed.
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October 29, 2025 at 9:12 pm
I think that’s how poetry should be. It could mean different things to different people.
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October 30, 2025 at 4:37 pm
I think so, too!
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