You won’t want to miss this one. Carol Balawyder’s latest novel is something unique.
Here is Carol and a little bit about her.
Carol’s academic training is in English Literature and Criminology. She studied criminology so as to bring credibility to the crime novels she wanted to write.
These days Carol is retired from her teaching post of supervising and teaching criminology to college students. She has been busy as a volunteer, visiting Alzheimer’s patients. She brings along her little dog, Bau. One of the patients, Doris, especially loved spending time with Bau. The sweet relationship they developed is reproduced in Carol’s latest novel.
The Lilac Notebook is a study of the decline of a young woman in the early stages of Alzheimer’s.
Doris had lost her ability to speak. Ms. Balawyder used this as a focal point of the murder investigation in which her fictional character, Holly is accused, but unable to defend herself.
Her main character Holly, is partly based on Doris and her relationship with Bau.
My Review of The Lilac Notebook.
Carol Balawyder’s novel, The Lilac Notebook, left me thinking of the plight of one of her characters for many days afterwards. Although it is a crime story, it is different from every other one I’ve read, because Holly, the main character, has early onset Alzheimer’s.
Her husband has never loved her, and now that she has this debilitating disease, she knows that he will find her a burden. She makes the decision to leave before it gets too bad, signs up for a college course and makes friends with two women who will entangle her in a murder mystery.
We learn in detail of her challenges as Alzheimer’s symptoms manifest themselves. In some cases, Alzheimer’s patients lose the ability to speak. They can still hear and reason, but find it difficult to respond. Sometimes the right word is hard to find, and increasingly it becomes more difficult to speak.
After a second murder takes place in their part of the city, Holly and her friends fear for their safety. Holly is haunted by clues she tries to put together, and suspects that the killer may be somehow connected to them. Her speech is becoming difficult, so she records as much as she can remember in her lilac notebook.
When one of her friends suggests that possibly it is Holly herself who is doing the killing, she is in turmoil because her memory has been failing her more and more. She wonders if her friend could be right. Perhaps Holly did kill those people and she just doesn’t remember it.
I was particularly impressed by the way Ms. Balawyder weaves in the details of Holly’s advancing Alzheimer’s in such a compassionate way. We are made to feel Holly’s fears, trepidation, confusion, and frustration as “the plot thickens” and her disease becomes more debilitating.
Real life still happens to people with Alzheimer’s, but we rarely have a chance to look inside the heads of people who suffer from it. With the murder mystery entertaining us, we empathize with Holly’s plight as she tries to solve the murders even while she is implicated in the deeds.
A well-researched nail-biter of a story.
You can purchase The Lilac Notebook at:
While you’re there, check out her “Getting to Mr. Right” series.
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April 9, 2023 at 2:21 pm
It sounds like an excellent book and a fine review as well.
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April 9, 2023 at 3:28 pm
I really enjoyed the combination of learning about how it is for people with Alzheimer’s and having a good mystery at the same time.
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April 9, 2023 at 3:48 pm
There is a saying somewhere by someone that once a writer sends her book out into the public it no longer belongs to her. The reader
becomes part of the book. It is a gift and blessing for the author to see that her novel is perceived as she imagined it.
Thank you, Anneli, for writing such a precise and accurate review of my book. ❤
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April 9, 2023 at 4:10 pm
It was my pleasure, Carol.
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April 9, 2023 at 6:44 pm
This sounds like a very interesting read, Anneli. Thanks for the review. I will add it to my growing list of books that I will have time to read starting in November. Cheers.
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April 9, 2023 at 6:52 pm
I have set up the reblog for tomorrow morning. Cheers.
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April 9, 2023 at 7:11 pm
Thank you very much, Lynette.
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April 10, 2023 at 4:29 am
Thank you, Lynette! xxx
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April 9, 2023 at 7:11 pm
That’s wonderful, Lynette. Thank you.
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April 10, 2023 at 3:54 am
It sounds interesting, dear Anneli. We enjoyed reading ‘Small World’ by Martin Suter, another Alzheimer crime story, very much.
All the best
The Fab Four of Cley
🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂
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April 10, 2023 at 7:41 am
Thanks, KB.
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April 10, 2023 at 6:37 am
Thanks for the great review, Anneli, and Carol’s book sounds really good. I love a gripping nail-biter. Congrats to Carol!
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April 10, 2023 at 7:40 am
I was especially interested in the realistic approach to the progression of Alzheimer’s as Carol wove it into the murder mystery.
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April 11, 2023 at 5:11 am
Thank you, Lauren. ❤
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April 11, 2023 at 6:27 am
You’re very welcome, Carol. 💞
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April 10, 2023 at 9:10 am
Sounds like an interesting thriller and moving all at once. I love the title. Catches the eye. Good luck with the novel, Carol.
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April 11, 2023 at 5:13 am
Thank you, Lori. I’m happy that you like the title. It didn’t come to me at first. I had other titles in mind but seeing as the clues to the murder are in Holly’s notebook I thought the title appropriate.
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April 12, 2023 at 4:11 pm
Just bought it. Thank you.
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April 12, 2023 at 7:26 pm
That’s great, Luanne. It really gives good insight into how it must be for people suffering from Alzheimer’s. Although that isn’t the main theme of the book, it features fairly prominently in the plot.
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April 13, 2023 at 2:18 pm
Such a horrible disease. Have you ever read Still Alice about early onset dementia?
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April 13, 2023 at 2:41 pm
Yes, I have read it. Well done. The Lilac Notebook takes us through Holly’s dementia, but the difference between this book and Still Alice is that there is a murder mystery going on at the same time, that involves Holly.
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April 13, 2023 at 3:19 pm
And I love murder mysteries.
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April 14, 2023 at 10:34 am
Thanks so much, Luanne. It means a lot to me. I hope that you’ll enjoy it. ❤
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April 14, 2023 at 11:55 am
It might take awhile but it’s lined up in my kindle.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:19 pm
That’s great, Luanne.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:29 pm
I am the one to thank you, Luanne. ❤
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April 12, 2023 at 4:14 pm
Sounds like it is a fantastic read, and a wonderful book to take on a holiday. I love reading by the ocean or by the pool. I think I may need a few Kleenex boxes here and there. Reading your review already got me a little teary. Thanks for the tip!!!
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April 12, 2023 at 7:24 pm
I think you would really like this book, Sonja.
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April 14, 2023 at 10:36 am
Thank you, Sonja. I hope that you will enjoy the book although I’m also hoping that the sad parts won’t spoil your holiday. In any case, have a wonderful holiday! ❤
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April 14, 2023 at 10:32 am
Reblogged this on Carol Balawyder and commented:
My gratitude and thanks to Anneli, for posting this on her blog. If you are not familiar with Anneli’s blog have a look at it. She writes amusing poetry about the critters that inhabit her backyard and ALSO she has written amazing novels. And oh, yes, if you are looking for an editor, look no further. ❤ Thank you Anneli for posting this. xxx
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April 14, 2023 at 10:57 am
A great review of Carol’s book. Shared.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:19 pm
Thank you, Darlene.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:04 pm
Thanks, Darlene. Much gratitude. ❤ Have a great weekend.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:11 pm
I’m looking forward to Carol’s latest book. It sounds good. Thanks for sharing your review.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:18 pm
It really shows a good insider look at how it must be to suffer from memory loss. On top of that, you have a murder mystery going on.
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April 14, 2023 at 1:31 pm
Thanks, Jill. I hope you’ll enjoy it. xx
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April 14, 2023 at 8:08 pm
What a fabulous review by Anneli. Congrats again Carol. I am looking so forward to reading it. Lovely feature here. Hugs ❤
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April 14, 2023 at 9:04 pm
Thanks so much, Debby.
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April 15, 2023 at 5:37 am
I will be buying Carol’s book today and start reading it right after I finish the one I’m reading now. Great review!
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April 15, 2023 at 1:32 pm
Thanks, Jennifer. I hope you like it. It’s something a little bit different.
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April 16, 2023 at 6:59 am
What a wonderful review, Anneli. I can see why it’s a nail-biter. I like Carol’s ambition in taking on this main character, and it sounds like she nailed it. A beautiful cover too. Congrats to Carol!
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April 16, 2023 at 1:56 pm
Thanks for the kind words, Diana.
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April 26, 2023 at 9:59 am
Anneli, thanks for sharing this review. When a writer captures the real world with another page, we as readers are walking right along with the very real situations.
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April 26, 2023 at 10:54 am
I was very intrigued to learn what Alzheimer’s sufferers might go through.
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