When I was quite young, my mother taught me how to set the table. I think it’s something that most parents teach their children as soon as they’re able to help out. Sometimes children ask:
Which side does the knife go on?
Which side for the fork?
Which way should the knife be turned,
Ready to eat pork?
Sharp side in or sharp side out?
How close to the plate?
What if there’s a spoon as well?
Can you tell me, mate?
So I decided to come up with a way to make it easier for a child to learn to set the table. Somewhere I had seen a set of placemats that showed exactly where to put the cutlery and where to put the plate.
At the same time, it was a good way to learn what the primary colours (red, yellow, and blue) were. The green was a bonus.
I made these quite a long time ago (eight years), but as I looked through some old photos, I came across them. Since I’m going to a quilting retreat next week, I thought I’d share these with you. I didn’t use a pattern to make the placemats. They’re quite simple. But I did cut out the shapes for the plates and the cutlery using cardboard tracers.
February 16, 2023 at 8:24 pm
This is so wonderful, Anneli, you are so creative! ☺️
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February 16, 2023 at 8:30 pm
Only sometimes, John, but thanks.
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February 17, 2023 at 7:44 am
You’re welcome. ☺️
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February 16, 2023 at 10:59 pm
Interestingly, why do left and right handed people have to set the table the same way, I wonder?
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February 17, 2023 at 9:34 am
Good point, Denzil. I never thought about that. Possibly, I thought it doesn’t matter because I always felt it awkward to eat holding the fork with my left hand. It’s good to cut with my right, but that’s about it. Have you ever noticed that some people cut with their right hand and then switch the fork to their right hand after cutting?
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February 17, 2023 at 10:21 am
I guess a lot of these etiquettes are beginning to fade away…
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February 17, 2023 at 10:30 am
Yes, and some I’m glad to see the last of, but some would have been nice to keep.
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February 17, 2023 at 12:39 am
Super idea, Anneli! And I love the vibrant colours of them!
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February 17, 2023 at 9:35 am
Thanks, Annika. Good for little kids.
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February 17, 2023 at 4:54 am
I love this, Anneli! You’re so creative.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:35 am
Tnx, Jill. They’re easy to make if you have kids or grandchildren.
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February 17, 2023 at 4:58 am
This is a great idea! I wish I’d known about this when my kids were young. 🙂
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February 17, 2023 at 9:36 am
Grandchildren, nieces, nephews?
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February 18, 2023 at 3:28 am
My nephews and nieces are too old, and no grandchildren, yet.
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February 17, 2023 at 5:04 am
I especially like the use of the primary colors. I still have quite vivid memories of the red, yellow and blue wooden chairs in my first grade reading circle, and of my primary colors fingerpaints. I suspect these placemats would have been equally memorable if my mother had made them. Very clever!
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February 17, 2023 at 9:42 am
Bright colours are great for kids. Notice how they use solid primary colours in playground equipment too, or in those big Bounce-a-Rama things. Kids love bright colours.
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February 17, 2023 at 5:40 am
Awesome idea Anneli and so colourful. Just what a kid would enjoy. Happy quilting. Allan
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February 17, 2023 at 9:43 am
Thanks, Allan. Have a great weekend.
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February 17, 2023 at 8:50 am
What a good idea to do such happy placemats for kids. But I think they are also very nice for everyone else. I love them!
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February 17, 2023 at 9:45 am
My niece had 8 or 10 people for Easter dinner that year, and I had only made 4 mats for her, so she used those for the kids and put other placemats in between for the adults.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:26 am
What a sweet idea. They’re very attractive too.
I bet you’re looking forward to the retreat.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:46 am
Thanks, Belinda. Yes, I am. One of these days I’ll have to make more of these table setting placemats for the new grand-niece in the family.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:27 am
Those are darling. I also learned, place forks/spoons in the order they’re used–outside in. That always helps me even now.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:48 am
YES! When there are a thousand little forks lined up and there are all kinds of courses, I tell myself, “No panic, outside in.”
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February 17, 2023 at 9:32 am
Nice job, Anneli. Have fun at your quilting retreat next week.
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February 17, 2023 at 9:48 am
Thanks, Lori. It’s amazing how much “stuff” you need to take for a few days away. Lots of planning and packing to do.
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February 17, 2023 at 10:43 am
I always over pack. Gotta have choices. 😉
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February 17, 2023 at 11:35 am
It’s better than forgetting one little very important thing.
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February 17, 2023 at 12:13 pm
This definitely caught my attention Anneli. So amazing.
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February 17, 2023 at 1:06 pm
Thanks, Anita.
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February 17, 2023 at 3:03 pm
You have so many talents, Anneli ❤
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February 17, 2023 at 4:22 pm
Jack of all trades. Master of none? Anyway, I like to dabble in a lot of hobbies.
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February 17, 2023 at 6:59 pm
What a brilliant idea for children! I had those questions when I was little, but no guiding placemat to help me. Have fun with your quilting. It’s so nice to have these pursuits back after the pandemic. Cheers.
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February 18, 2023 at 12:22 pm
It is! We’ve had to cancel all those activities until now. Nice to get back to “normal.”
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February 18, 2023 at 7:27 am
Great idea, Anneli, and these are adorable with the primary colors. Have fun at your retreat!
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February 18, 2023 at 12:17 pm
Thanks, Lauren. It’s countdown time. Getting my sewing machine warmed up.
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February 18, 2023 at 4:43 pm
What a clever idea! I so love how these help children learn the primary colors too. 🙂
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February 18, 2023 at 7:03 pm
Thanks, Layla. Double lesson without even trying.
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February 18, 2023 at 5:41 pm
It’s been so long since I set a table that I could use those! They’re so cute, Anneli. What fun. Have a great time at your retreat. I can’t wait to see what you create. 🙂
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February 18, 2023 at 7:04 pm
Oooh! The pressure is on now!
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February 19, 2023 at 6:23 am
Ha! Just enjoy yourself.
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February 18, 2023 at 10:43 pm
Putting your quilting talents to work while you teach primary colors and table setting—I’m impressed! A great post, Anneli!
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February 19, 2023 at 10:03 am
Thanks, Diane. They were kind of fun to make, not too hard to do.
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February 19, 2023 at 2:46 am
What a nice idea! I could imagine those selling quite well if you wanted to go down that route.
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February 19, 2023 at 10:02 am
Hadn’t thought of that.
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February 19, 2023 at 6:30 am
Creative way of teaching and sharing so much more. Anneli, may your quilting journey bring many blessings.
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February 19, 2023 at 10:00 am
Thanks, Richard.
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February 20, 2023 at 12:52 pm
I like this!
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February 20, 2023 at 1:17 pm
Thanks, Jennie. It would be great to have a set of them for using in the Kindergarten class.
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February 20, 2023 at 3:22 pm
Yes! When do you go on your quilting retreat?
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February 20, 2023 at 5:04 pm
Thursday morning until Sunday afternoon.
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February 21, 2023 at 4:45 am
I’ll be thinking of you. 😀
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February 21, 2023 at 7:58 am
Thanks, Jennie. Sure you wouldn’t like to come? There’s still time.
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February 22, 2023 at 6:42 pm
I wish I could!
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February 20, 2023 at 5:39 pm
These are so clever! I think “kids these days” need the added visual, because parents these days seem too harried/rushed/busy to teach a lot of this etiquette. I happen to think a well-set table is not old-fashioned, but civilized and beautiful.
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February 20, 2023 at 7:23 pm
I agree with you. I hate to let all decorum fly out the window. We don’t need to hang onto stuffy traditions, but some common table etiquette is good to preserve. Otherwise we might as well join the barn animals in the feed trough.
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February 22, 2023 at 1:19 pm
That’s what my dad used to say to my brother and me when we were kids. Then, on Christmas Day, my brother (about 6) was eating not decorously and my dad asked him “Were you brought up on a barn?” and my brother responded seriously, “Me and baby Jesus.”
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February 22, 2023 at 2:09 pm
LOL! The cheeky little devil! So funny.
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